Authentically Aligned Synchronicity

Let’s talk about building your entire self up organically; or what I also refer to as, “doing the work”. This is a practice, a practice of raw radical self-care that doesn’t come in the form of external gratification(or maybe sometimes it does but let’s focus on the soul). These are ideas that can sometimes be painful to explore. We tend to go through life shielding, escaping and evading. Avoiding all the truths we have to endure to find out what we stand for.

Discovering who you are and what footprint you want to leave in your community is crucial to finding your voice. We can chose to follow the beaten path and be left with the sad truth that we have not become familiar with the person that matters most in our lives, self. We see it everyday in social media or even in day to day interactions as we repost and share ideas that were presented to us but never taking the time to develop and assess what those ideas mean to us.

One of the best ways to start this process is by evaluating your own ideas and how they support you in your journey of creativity. From the very beginning of our thoughtful selves, it is the basis of imagination that shows us what things are possible through the most inventive ways of play. Teaching us how to solve problems, reflect on bigger and better possibilities; the driving forces in helping us to create over and over again an absolutely fulfilling life. Now does it make sense why your parents were hell bent on asking “how could you be bored!?” We are responsible for the light we bring to our own lives.

Our own imaginations are what builds our authenticity. It is the place in our minds where dreams exist in the most magical way. Only we can bring the moments to fruition. This is what makes us endearingly unique. We shouldn’t shy away from sharing that very eccentric part of us. It absolutely saddens me when I hear people say “ I don’t have a creative bone in my body”. I will forever believe this to be a lie. If we consistently compare ourselves to others, and their own ideas of what makes them special – we’ve already lost because we had the audacity to measure our own successes based on someone else’s blue print that we had absolutely nothing to do with. Authenticity starts and ends from within.

How do we support our own growth journeys as we start to bridge them with others? That my friends is alignment. A person who understands who they are, tends to make better decisions on who they come into agreement with. Whether it be in a friendship, intimate partnership, or business relationship. After all, how can one decide what’s best for them if they can’t offer that same reflection with self? It can be a difficult task to stay true to your own ethos; especially in such a comparative time. We all want to know what the next person is doing, just maybe they got it right better than all of us. W R O N G. They got it right for themselves. Then. And only then my friends, did their lives seemingly fall into a better alignment with their surroundings. You gotta do, what’s right for you.

Now. Let’s talk about the magic of synchronicity! I want to share a little anecdote of Isabel’s and my day last weekend:

It started off as a somewhat rough morning. Dealing with personal affairs and coming to the conclusion that we were losing steam with our ventures. No real motivation was coming to the surface. That didn’t stop us from setting out on our morning meet and great with someone we had been admiring and decided to approach about being apart of Dream Broad. What an experience! We had an amazing exchange, filled with hope, support and all of the gems we needed to push us into the next part of our day where we were going to be vending at the Sac Library downtown. We decided to stop off for coffee. Lowe and behold we run into another familiar face who’s divine purpose was to encourage us and give us all the props for what we have been doing. Primarily telling us, do not quit. Keep going. Off we went. At the event, we had a visit from one of our community sisters that was truly inspiring and encouraging. Out of that interaction came ideas for our next 2 events. Our day and hearts were completely full.

Keep thugin’ it out family. Take the time to build a relationship with yourself, so you can have stronger relationships in your community. It will lead to a purposeful life.

Mercury Retrograde

I love astrology and all things seemingly inexplicable. Astrology, numerology, tarot cards, chakras, crystal therapy, energy healing, you name it, I’ve read a few books and watched a few docs on it. I’m not here to convince you one way or another but rather to share some of my own insights that have become recently relevant.

Now we all know the phrase: Mercury in retrograde. It’s become the scapegoat for why things go wrong, especially poor communication. I’m sure you’ve seen the pun-intended memes “Mercury is in Gatorade” but there is some background information that I want to share so the next time you drop the phrase in conversation, you know what you’re talking about.

Mercury is the first celestial body in our solar system closest to the Sun. It’s orbit is the fastest, clocking in at 88 days and stays in each zodiac sign/constellation for 15 days. When a planet retrogrades, that means it’s relative position to Earth makes it appear as if it is moving backwards. Seeing as how Mercury is the planet that represents travel and communication, so it is named after the Roman god Mercury/Greek god Hermès, aka the quick-footed messenger of the gods.

Now when Mercury retrogrades, us Earthlings appear to lose all sense of how to communicate efficiently, technology crashes, and we live in confusion for roughly 3 weeks at a time. Skeptic or not, you probably noticed the shift. If you read your horoscope during Mercury retrograde, you’ll probably be advised against signing contracts, making big decisions, traveling to far away places etc.

To combat the temporary chaos, be mindful of the shift. Speak with care, proceed with caution, in general just slow down a bit. Be more aware of things not going your way earlier on In the process than usual and don’t force it. This too shall pass.

For an extra boost, you can utilize crystal energy to aid in easing communication of all kinds. The throat chakra is a communication center and it’s corresponding color is turquoise. Carry stones of a blue-green hue like turquoise, chrysoprase or amazonite. You can also use crystal quartz for clarity in thought or speech. If you know me, you know I’m not the most eloquent person at times, and often fill in the gaps with laughter so my favorite earrings to wear during Mercury retrograde, a job interview or and important conversation are terminated crystal quartz.

If you have any questions regarding crystals and their meanings, feel free to leave a comment, I’m happy to help!

-Isabel