As we’ve mentioned before, one of our missions is to bring together people in an effort to build community. The Blooming Dreamers are launching off our ‘Featured Dreamers’ section with us as the guinea pigs. This was a lot of fun and a huge learning experience. We are already scheduling interviews and fine tuning our platform so that we can bring you pure quality interactions once a month. Stay tuned, please enjoy the read. We may even get some vlog bloopers up for your entertainment.
Akilah: What is something you wish older generations did with or for you?
Isabel: Whew, teach me how to manage money. Granted, my older generations weren’t taught much; we know the economy has changed but you know they did what they could. They didn’t teach me enough.
Both ladies sip their PBR simultaneously *
I: What about you?
A: Okay, well I would love to say that they paved the way for me but I felt a little lost along the way. Not only with finances but school, friendships, family relationships, and business. Now that I’m a mom, I do get help – I just wish the things with motherhood were more openly discussed with people other than your gyno and your girlfriends.
I: Oh ya! Seriously. Next question, where do you see your project and your company in the next 5 years?
A: Where do I start?! EVERYWHERE! I’m serious when I say, this is for us and everyone around us. Right now, I have the energy to take on the world. I don’t just want to be a blog and an Instagram account. That is stupid. I want to provide a service, embrace people and love on them. I may be a product of the Bay but I grew up here in Sacramento and this is the education system I came from. I’m giving back. Where do you see us?
I: I see us building this amazing community, which is pretty small right now. And a lot of you out there don’t even know you are apart of this. I think potentially we will have a space that feeds the minds and the souls of everybody, not just the women. Families, men, kids, everybody. I’m ready for the next one.
A: How does/did not having a sacred space affect your well being?
I: I have a personal anecdote. Back when I started dating Neko, I did not have a place to call my own. I had to put all my stuff in storage and I ended up crashing on Neko’s bed. For 7 months, I could not find a place to live! I finally found one, moved out for 5 months and only to move back in, again.
A: Were you trying or were you snuggling?
I: Both. But in that process, I realized I didn’t have a space to call home. I lived out of a back and everything I would have surrounded myself with to make it feel more like home was in a storage unit. It was depressing. It’s discouraging but it makes you push harder.
A: I don’t have a sacred space. I guess my sacred space is in my car, where my music is. It’s taxing I find I lash out when I’ve hit my brink, or I pack up all my stuff and run away but not for long because I have a 2 ½-year-old. I take on everyone’s problems if I can and then I find my allegorical suitcase is full of things that do not serve me. I feel like having that space would help me; tidy up, release and breathe. I’m working on it.
I: I like it. How do you exercise self preservation?
A: We just loaded that one. We don’t have any self preservation!
Isabel is bent over laughing at this point. Now we are both drummed up into a maniacal hysteria*
I: Drinking this beer, using this camera. Going inward.
A: Okay, I loc’d my hair. That’s self-preservation. My tattoos. My painted toenails.
Shows off her painted nails*
I: Christmas Colors!
A: We are exercising being grateful right now.
I: What is your greatest tool to help you tune into your higher frequencies?
A: Easy, large bodies of water that I can dunk my head in. I like to swim. If you know my son’s name, you would know how much I love water.
I: I do two things. 1 – I travel, it helps me reset. I come back Zen’d out whether its a day trip or another country.
A: That’s a big tool. Nice.
I: The other thing I do, going inward once again – I do card readings, cleanse my crystals and burn some incense.
A: You had good answers, mine was very short to the point and get out of my face.
I: But you knew your answer and I had to think about mine. Ready?
A: Yup, Last one! Where is self-care in your schedule? And what do you do?
I: Once a year, I get a tattoo. I would show you the last one, but then I’d have to take my pants off. They are the ultimate collaging of life experiences.
A: Yeah, we’re totem poles.
I: Also, when I’m riding my bike – I’m listening to music, looking at trees and singing my heart out even though I can’t breathe.
A: It almost eliminated itself out but, whenever I have time. I journal. One of the things that I’ve told myself – use the pretty things. I have to tell myself to do this because I will not use these things. I think what I am writing or what I have to say needs to be perfect in order to do so. But, I’m really wrong in my thought process.
I: This is us signing off.